Setting a Budget for Your Wedding

WeddingThere is a high likelihood that you’ll be getting married (if you haven’t already). Although the percentage of married people is declining, it’s still well over 50%. The rate of marriages is 7.5 per 1,000 total population, according to the CDC. Given that, you better prep yourself for a wedding.

While the cost of a wedding can run anywhere from $18 (lowest cost of a marriage license, depending on state) to million$$, it would be smart to plan out a budget.   read more»


Welcome to New Editor Daron!

I just wanted to welcome Daron to EvolveMe.org. Daron is a good friend of mine and maid of honor at my wedding, no less. Any way, I’m hoping she’ll be writing on topics that I don’t think about or have experience in. Hoora!


That Damn Question..Buy or Rent?

Buy or Rent? Rent or Buy? It seems everyone you ask gives you some different spin on this, and no one seems to know for sure. I’ve heard a lot of “it’s a great investment..renting is just wasting money.” However, given the current housing market and economy, this may not be the best advice to follow.

In this month’s GQ, there was a pretty insightful article on home buying. If you calculate it, it turns out this whole “equity” and “good deal” thing is a total sham! If you have a giant stash, then sure, buying a home can be a good deal, but otherwise, you may want to think about it a bit more.

A good place to start is the New York Times online rent-versus-buy calculator. With it you can plug in the numbers such as size, zoning, rent, cost of houses, etc..and it will tell you how long you have to live in the house before the costs even out. Depending on your location, the calculator might surprise you. It’s a pretty well written light article and easy to read, so go grab a copy of the Feb GQ and read it. It’s the one with Rachel Bilson on the cover. Yes, there are pictures. Hooya hoo hoos.


Is it Sabbatical Time?

Sabbaticals can be a great way to revitalize yourself, especially in today’s hectic go-go-go working society. However, it can be tricky to pull off since taking such a big break from work has a few risks. Considerations include continuation of health benefits, pause in usual income, and resuming work after the break. If planned correctly, sabbaticals can be a great way to refresh your mind and gain new perspectives that can potentially help you once you get back to work.
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Happy New Year Everyone!

Happy New Year from EvolveMe.org! Hope everyone has a great and fresh new year. Feel free to share any resolutions you may have made.


How to Deal: A Bad Performance Review

STAY CALM. Most important from the get-go is to stay calm. If you spaz out you’ll most likely end up doing something really stupid that can come around and screw you (yeah..you know where). Almost everyone gets at least one bad review in their careers, so stay calm, and see how to deal.
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Weighing in on Entrepreneurism

Many people have an interest in starting their own business. Either it be from a strong entrepreneur spirit, or you’re just sick of working for your belligerent boss, many consider the prospects of leaving the supposed rat race. Being an entrepreneur indeed has its benefits, but many do not see the not so cheery extras that come with working for yourself.
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EvolveMe.org now supports iPhone!

iphoneHappy Tuesday before Thanksgiving! Just wanted to let everyone know that EvolveMe.org now supports iPhone’s Safari browser. When you visit from your desktop you will still see the original site, but when viewing on your iPhone it will format for easier reading. Hopefully future updates will let you choose which version you want to see when you are mobile. Till then, leave a note and let us know what you think!

Have a great weekend, and try not to eat the entire turkey.

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A New View on Exercise

shoulder Ask anyone about fitness, and you’ll most likely hear something about running. Most of us hold to the standard that running equals physical health. However, recent research results suggest the running is only a small contributor to overall physical health.   read more»


Controlling that Connection Between our Brains

I spent this past weekend meeting up with friends I hardly get to see (damn you real life and your jobs). We all met up in NYC from our respective cities for a few days of catching up and craziness. Of course, when you stick a bunch of guys in the City, there’s bound to be some Y-chromo tendencies. So many hotties around it kind of makes you goofy. Obviously, for the single guys this is no thing; for the rest of us, it is a nut kick waiting to happen.
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